How exciting it must be to get married, to see your kids leave for college, or to finally reach the time of retirement! All true, and yet these times can also bring sadness. The transitions of life are often bittersweet. While there can be great anticipation as we move into the next stages of life, […]
From the Back Cover: When “How far is too far?” doesn’t go far enough. Most books on single adult sexuality limit the discussion to the physical. But there’s more to your sexuality than your body. It’s time to look at the big picture and talk about sex in terms of body, soul, and spirit–that’s soul virginity. Soul virgins are single people who seek to celebrate God’s design for sexuality in themselves and others. With solid biblical principles, practical tips, and candid discussions, Soul Virgins can help you create a foundation for sexual wholeness you’ll be happy to embrace at any stage of life!
On both sides of the altar, going and coming, it seems many Christians are wondering if saving sex for marriage either is worth it or was worth it. For singles, they question the value of waiting especially when many of their peers, and maybe even their future spouse, is out having fun hooking up. It […]
Naturally, we don’t share the private and intimate details of our sexual life with just anyone. There is a sacredness to our sexuality that we want to protect from those who might not handle it well. However, when it is time to address problems in our sexuality, or simply continue growing into God’s best, we […]
Much debate has surrounded the topic of masturbation in Christian circles. Often the debate asks Is masturbation wrong? and much energy is spent trying prove whether it should be on the approved or not approved list. I’m realizing that a better question to ask regarding masturbation is that of Love. Debates about its sinfulness seems to bring […]
For some masturbation is a means of escape, a way to numb the ache of their longings. Others come to believe the physical release is all they desire and are left frustrated when their core desires are left undiminished; they place an expectation on masturbation that it alone is powerless to provide. A few are […]
Christ came that we might have life, and life to the full. While procreation certainly involves brining children into the world, God’s creative, live-giving powers goes beyond this. As such, both marrieds and singles can participate in Christ mission to bring more life into the world; they both can be part of the spiritual mandate […]
I don’t see the big deal with having friends with benefits. It’s not like I am cheating anyone. I’ll stop once I get married. – Brandon It is not sex unless you go all the way. If I don’t actually do it, I can have fun now and still technically be a virgin on my […]