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Can We Acknowledge Each Other as Sexual Beings?

It's easy to acknowledge each other as male and female. What is much harder to…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJune 10, 2017

Are You a Digger or a Disher? DivorceForgivenessFreedomFriendshipGraceLoveMarriageMasculinityPersonality Differences

Are You a Digger or a Disher?

"I assumed if she wanted to know more about me she would ask. She didn’t,…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJune 2, 2017

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Freeing Eros for Agape

For many Christians, eros stands in stark opposition to agape forms of love. Eros is…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 26, 2017

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The Difficult Road to a Championship Marriage

Why is marriage so hard? If we love each other shouldn’t things just click? Did…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 25, 2017

Embracing the Bittersweet Transitions of Life CommunityDeathFaithFreedomHopeMarriageMusingsSingle SexualitySoul CareSpiritual Formation

Embracing the Bittersweet Transitions of Life

How exciting it must be to get married, to see your kids leave for college,…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 25, 2017

When You Married Your Opposite GraceLoveMarriagePersonality Differences

When You Married Your Opposite

Very often, the man I married (a.k.a. my annoyinghusband) drives me absolutely bonkers. And I do…

Guest AuthorMay 18, 2017

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Empower Your Marriage with Grace

It's difficult to know how to respond when our spouse’s actions negatively affect us. We…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 16, 2017

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Marriage Weed Control Tips

A weed is “a plant considered undesirable in a particular situation.” Simply put, it is…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 11, 2017

Musings on Sexual Attraction, Behaviors, and Desires BeautyMusingsSexual AttractionSexual FantasiesSexual Polarity

Musings on Sexual Attraction, Behaviors, and Desires

Maybe due to our general discomfort and anxiety in discussing sexual matters openly, we often…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 2, 2017

A Conversation for Men About the Human Body BeautyEmbodimentNudity

A Conversation for Men About the Human Body

How can we learn to appreciate the elegance and beauty of the human form? Often…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMarch 22, 2017

It’s Not My Job to Grow Up My Spouse FreedomIntimacyLoveMarriageSpiritual FormationStewardship

It’s Not My Job to Grow Up My Spouse

The following insights are some of the hardest but most valuable interpersonal lessons I’ve learned…

Guest AuthorMarch 14, 2017

Say Yes to Your Marriage FreedomMarriageStewardship

Say Yes to Your Marriage

We are intentional beings. Daily we make choices on how to devote our time and…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMarch 11, 2017

The Power of Sexual Wonder BeautyEcstasyErosErotic ImagesEroticismMusingsPornographySexual Fantasies

The Power of Sexual Wonder

After listening to a recent podcast exploring the power of wonder and why we need…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMarch 9, 2017

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Pet Peeves in Marriage

There is a single, unopened Twix bar that continually sits on our nightstand. And it…

Guest AuthorFebruary 4, 2017

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Getting His Attention

Why can’t my husband pay more attention to me? After we got married it seemed…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJanuary 31, 2017

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Desiring Ecstasy

Crawling in from work exhausted and tired, my soul is hungry. I am ready for…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJanuary 19, 2017

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Erotic by His Design

It is true sex dominates the lives of many men. And for some it has…

Dr. Corey CarlisleAugust 20, 2016

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Loving Hard, Loving Soft

For many men having a predictable and strong erection is a defining characteristic of their…

Dr. Corey CarlisleAugust 5, 2016

An Outward Focus (Finding the Purpose of Marriage) Larger StoryMarriagePremaritalStewardship

An Outward Focus (Finding the Purpose of Marriage)

For many, the sole purpose of marriage is to merely have a regular companion to…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJuly 28, 2016

The Exclusive and Inclusive Nature of Marriage IntimacyLarger StoryLoveMarriagePersonality Differences

The Exclusive and Inclusive Nature of Marriage

My wife and our marriage are a priority in my life. However, at times I…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJuly 15, 2016

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Freedom of Sexual Fantasies

God has created us with a powerful mind. We are able to think, imagine, and…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJuly 8, 2016

How to get your wife to stop nagging you and initiate sex more often Female SexualityIntimacyLoveLovemaking AtmosphereMale SexualityMarriage

How to get your wife to stop nagging you and initiate sex more often

Dr. Corey recently wrote a post on my blog about helping wives know how to…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJuly 7, 2016

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Building Intimacy Through Curiosity

Do you remember when you were dating and first getting to know your spouse? Chances…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJuly 1, 2016

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From Contempt to Admiration

Dr. John Gottman, a relationship expert and researcher, has identified four horsemen that can statistically…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJune 28, 2016

Beauty Hunting Links

Beauty Hunting

A professor once reminded me of the need to be intentional about seeking beauty, especially when…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJune 24, 2016

Sexual Faithfulness is More Than Not Having an Affair Lovemaking AtmosphereSexual IntimacyStewardship

Sexual Faithfulness is More Than Not Having an Affair

Sexual faithfulness is about remaining true and loyal to the marriage bed. This is often…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJune 23, 2016

Choosing Freedom Over Blame FaithFreedomMusings

Choosing Freedom Over Blame

The blame game was originated by Adam in the Garden many years ago as he…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJune 22, 2016

What does the Bible say about Lust? Links

What does the Bible say about Lust?

For many Christian men, the sin of lust has been defined as merely finding a woman…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 27, 2016

Handling Anger Anger

Handling Anger

“I have become aware of and disturbed by the intensity of my anger recently. I…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 25, 2016

Why Sometimes The Best Thing to Do With Relationships is Let Them Go Links

Why Sometimes The Best Thing to Do With Relationships is Let Them Go

We should have a direction in life, we should become people who are more and…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 20, 2016