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It’s Not All About You

What is the purpose of your strength? Why did God give you your particular gifts…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMarch 2, 2019

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Masculinity and A Beginner’s Mind

For better or worse, we were taught from a young age what it means to…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMarch 1, 2019

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Accepting Our Shadow Self

There is a part of us we freely show to others, and a part we…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 28, 2019

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My Father’s Hands

My father’s hands are shaky now, But they diligently share with me his thoughts  …

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 26, 2019

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Mature Manhood is a Skill

We want to be better men, but this is no easy journey. Maturity is not…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 26, 2019

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A Prayer for Men

Merciful Father, how far we have fallen. You created us in Your image, But we…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 24, 2019

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You Are The Riverbank

There is no neutral in marriage. When it comes to establishing the atmosphere in our…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 24, 2019

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Befriending Impotence

Struggling to get or keep an erection is not an experience most guys want to…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 23, 2019

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Bring Back Your Wolf

Wolves are dangerous predators. And certainly we would be better off without them…right? As it…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 22, 2019

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Living With Integrity

To live with integrity is to align our daily actions and behaviors with our core…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 21, 2019

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Nightmare, Real, or Ideal Self?

We each have a nightmare self, an ideal self, and a real self. It is…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 19, 2019

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It’s Not Your Fault, but You’re Still Responsible

If it is not my fault, then it is not my responsibility! Not so fast.…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 19, 2019

Toxic Masculinity Snippets

Toxic Masculinity

To focus on toxic masculinity misses the true essence of masculinity. Of course, there are…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 17, 2019

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A Prayer for Men

Father, we declare with You, Your creation of us as men is very good,  though…

Dr. Corey CarlisleFebruary 17, 2019

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Eros, Counseling, & Sexual Health (Podcast)

Listen to my interview with Rebecca Lemke (The Scarlet Virgins Podcast) as we discuss Eros, what…

Dr. Corey CarlisleJuly 17, 2018

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Sex and the Search for Meaning

What's the meaning of sex? Men are often encouraged to see there is more to…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 19, 2018

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The Pursuit of Sexual Maturity

Men are often known to be fixers. Whether replacing parts on our vehicles or making…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 10, 2018

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Your Sex Drive is a Gift

Imagine getting your son a highly prized gift, one you know will bring him much…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 8, 2018

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Let Your Sexuality Shine as Light in the World

We don’t have to look far to see the dark side of male sexuality, everything…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 5, 2018

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Why You Should Quit Your 12-Step Meeting

Dave has a history of struggling with pornography and being tempted to engage in inappropriate…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 3, 2018

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Being Creative, Passionate, and Generous

As men, we get to reflect the strength of God in many creative, passionate, and…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 2, 2018

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Male Sexuality – Telling a Better Story (Video)

Listen to my conversation with Dr. Jessica McCleese (BeFullyWell.com) as we discuss the need to…

Dr. Corey CarlisleMay 1, 2018

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Overcoming Common Sexual Problems (Video)

While sex is a very natural part of the human experience, many couples are left…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 23, 2018

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Building an Intimate Relationship with God (Video)

Many individuals feel too hurried to build an intimate relationship with God. While it will…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 23, 2018

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What Story Are We Telling?

Stories are powerful. They tell us who we are, why we are here, and what…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 13, 2018

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Our Sexuality Is A Gold Mine

Imagine a wealthy investor giving you a plot of land with a literal gold mine…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 11, 2018

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Being a Sexual Man Is More Than You Think

What if our sexuality is more than what we do with our genitals? When sexuality…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 10, 2018

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Playing It Safe Hurts

As men, we gravitate toward things in which we feel competent – things we know…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 7, 2018

Come Out of the Harbor Snippets

Come Out of the Harbor

Men - it's time to come out of the harbor and live as the sexual…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 6, 2018

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When the Prodigal Son Now Plays It Safe

See if this sounds familiar. You grew up in a Christian home, and though your…

Dr. Corey CarlisleApril 4, 2018