One of the many delights of childhood is the freedom to run and play and simply be a kid. Of course, maturity comes with discipline and we must eventually learn the wisdom of when it’s time for play and when it’s not. But all too often we have allowed ourselves to be suffocated under the burden of expectations that we’ve forgotten our birthright of freedom. We are free, but we must now remember to practice the freedom we do have.
On the one hand, it’s only right to put away our childish things. Many things we must do simply because they need to be done – sacrificing our blood, sweat, and tears to bring goodness and life to others. But these sacrifices should ultimately bring life to ourselves as well as to others. And something is awry in our efforts when this is not the case.
Often what’s missing is a sense of freedom. And the weight of unending obligation soon drains our souls.
Practicing freedom is first remembering Christ came to set us free. This doesn’t mean we can do whatever we want and neglect our responsibilities. But there is a sense of that childlike wonder and inhibition to be just ourselves that we get to fully embrace.
We long for this freedom in our work, marriage, and sexual lives. While honoring the needs of others and always considering how to advance their good, we get to rest in our unique desires, quirks, and interests. We love best not by trying to conform to expectations of others, but rather unapologetically celebrating who God has called us to be.
Certainly, this means dying to our sinful desires. But even this death opens the door for us to enjoy more and more of the original glory God created for us. And we’ve missed the point when our discipline is soul killing rather than life giving.
In the end, Christ has set you free. Practice the truth of this freedom throughout your life and relationships.
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