That’s why I’ve devoted my life to being a lighthouse for men — shining light into the dark, confusing places of their stories and helping them find their way home. Not just to relief or success. But to wholeness. To the deep strength God placed within them — strength meant not only to sustain their own lives, but to bless and protect those they’re called to love and serve.
This work isn’t about fixing broken men. It’s about helping good men remember who they are and what they’re here to offer.
I believe true masculine strength is grounded, sacrificial, rooted in love, and gives life to others freely and passionately. This strength is cultivated by turning inward, not in a self-centered navel-gazing, but in learning to listen to your own story, your own longings, and the voice of God within. It’s through this deeper self-awareness that you’re able to rise — not just to feel better, but to lead better, love stronger, and offer more.
When men live from this place of wholeness, everything changes:
- Marriages grow deeper.
- Children flourish.
- Faith becomes vibrant.
- Communities are renewed.
This isn’t about shame or performance. It’s about calling — reclaiming who you truly are as a man made in God’s image.
While I continue my work as a marriage and sex therapist, I’ve also chosen to stand in the gap—creating a space for men to reclaim their authentic masculinity.
Through counseling, writing, and teaching, I’m committed to walking with men on the path of formation—helping them integrate their soul, sexuality, and strength in the service of love.
I envision a generation of men—husbands, fathers, and leaders—who are deeply rooted in their identity and boldly offer their presence to bring more life and goodness into the world.
You don’t have to settle for merely surviving. You were made to rise.
Let’s Rise and Reign together.