We like the idea of offering our strength to make an impact for good. And naturally we want this based on our true character rather than merely our charisma or just telling people what they want to hear. But our strength is forged as we practice hard things. And our good intentions are not enough regardless of how well meaning we might be otherwise.
For instance, we might be naturally gifted in certain areas. And perhaps for years it’s enough just to show up. But there’s no substitute for hard work. And eventually we become ineffective when we’re not willing to practice hard things. This is the son of a great athlete who has all the genetics to do great things himself, but doesn’t show up to practice. His laziness will allow others who are less genetically inclined to surpass him because they’re willing to put in the work.
To be sure, we can only get so far with just our charm, good looks, or natural talents. To have the impact we desire we must consistently submit to challenging situations that push us to our edge. In fact, we must be willing to go past our edge and experience failure to grow.
And, in this sense, all our potential is meaningless if we’re not also on the way toward it being actualized. This is the student who might have many brilliant ideas, but doesn’t take the time to articulate his thoughts in a way that resonates with others. His thoughts will only have the impact he desires when he does the hard work of learning how to effectively communicate.
We remain an empty vessel and rob others of life and goodness when we don’t put in the work and merely try to coast through life on good feelings.
In the end, your strength is needed more than your good intentions. And your strength is forged as you practice hard things.
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